Trade problem... a deal is a deal? What do you think?
Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 6:39 pm
I am having a bit of a problem with a fellow trader. I am not going to name names, as I do not see it fit at this time. I do not wish to cause any trouble, I am only trying to see what the rest of my fellow b-town traders feel about this situation. And hopefully this trader I am having the problem with and I can come to an agreement.
Trader and I made a deal that we both agreed upon. He sent me his shipping address, and though his feedback was lower than mine, I could see that he was a veteran trader with perfect feedback of over 100, so I wasnt worried. And so I sent his items out in good faith. I mean, after all, with feedback like that, you gotta be a good trader (not one to back out of a deal).
After I ship them, he PM's me, and says he would like to back out as he no longer really needs the items he traded for. I explain to him that I have already sent his items and that we had already agreed to the deal.
So he reply's that it is fine, and he will box up my stuff and ship it out the following day or the day after.
Today I saw him in the chat room and he tells me that he was surprised and dissapointed with what he received. And that he expected the items to be new on sprue. I reminded him that I had told him of the condtion of the items before and that my ad also stated that the items were not new. Infact, it stated that they were 'used'.
He said he still did not want them, and that he wanted to send them back to me, and that he no longer felt they were worth the deal we had agreed to.
I explained to him that it is not my fault that he thought he was getting something new on sprue.
Reader: If I purchased an item from you that you stated was used, and I agreed to purchase it anyway, but I for some reason expected it to be brand new when I got it, would you not still feel it only fair that I pay for said item?
I would not expect my trade partner to make good on something that is my fault, would you? I may ask them to let me out of the deal, but if they don't want to let me out of the deal, then to me, a deal is a deal. I made it, I have to keep it. Right?
And I told him that I have kept all the messages between he and I, and that I would be willing to take this up with the bartertown moderators. Though, because they are very busy people with lives of their own, and this trader and I are both veteran traders, it would be ashame for us to do so. We should be able to stick to our agreements as veteran traders with perfect feedback should.
Breaking deals is something I (though sadly) have almost come to expect from noobie traders. Not from a veteran trader with over 100 perfect feedback.
So, that said, he did not want to take the case to the moderators if possible. And asked if we could make alter the deal to accomodate a quicker resolve of the matter.
And although I feel this is unfair to myself, and unprofessional as a trader, I agreed to do so, because I felt bad for him that he was not happy with the deal.
SO, I took a LOT of the stuff off that I was expecting from our agreement/deal.
Thus far I have not heard back from him. And he left the chatroom without reply.
Thoughts? Advice? Agree? Dissagree? Is a deal a deal and it should be kept? Or is bartertown not a place that we should make deals and keep them?
[EDIT] 8/2/07 - The trader has admirably agreed to complete this trasnaction that we agreed to and has sent me his end of the deal. He even went as far as to buy a BRAND NEW TAU EMPIRE codex to send me! (because the one we had traded for couldnt be found) I recieved the package today and am very pleased. I harbor no hard feelings, and knowing that this was a simple mistake (we ALL make mistakes) and not something typical of this trader, I would happily trade with him again.
Thank you all for your input, I am hoping this thread will cause us all to be more careful when making trades, and hopefully help to make bartertown a safer place to do buisness.
Trader and I made a deal that we both agreed upon. He sent me his shipping address, and though his feedback was lower than mine, I could see that he was a veteran trader with perfect feedback of over 100, so I wasnt worried. And so I sent his items out in good faith. I mean, after all, with feedback like that, you gotta be a good trader (not one to back out of a deal).
After I ship them, he PM's me, and says he would like to back out as he no longer really needs the items he traded for. I explain to him that I have already sent his items and that we had already agreed to the deal.
So he reply's that it is fine, and he will box up my stuff and ship it out the following day or the day after.
Today I saw him in the chat room and he tells me that he was surprised and dissapointed with what he received. And that he expected the items to be new on sprue. I reminded him that I had told him of the condtion of the items before and that my ad also stated that the items were not new. Infact, it stated that they were 'used'.
He said he still did not want them, and that he wanted to send them back to me, and that he no longer felt they were worth the deal we had agreed to.
I explained to him that it is not my fault that he thought he was getting something new on sprue.
Reader: If I purchased an item from you that you stated was used, and I agreed to purchase it anyway, but I for some reason expected it to be brand new when I got it, would you not still feel it only fair that I pay for said item?
I would not expect my trade partner to make good on something that is my fault, would you? I may ask them to let me out of the deal, but if they don't want to let me out of the deal, then to me, a deal is a deal. I made it, I have to keep it. Right?
And I told him that I have kept all the messages between he and I, and that I would be willing to take this up with the bartertown moderators. Though, because they are very busy people with lives of their own, and this trader and I are both veteran traders, it would be ashame for us to do so. We should be able to stick to our agreements as veteran traders with perfect feedback should.
Breaking deals is something I (though sadly) have almost come to expect from noobie traders. Not from a veteran trader with over 100 perfect feedback.
So, that said, he did not want to take the case to the moderators if possible. And asked if we could make alter the deal to accomodate a quicker resolve of the matter.
And although I feel this is unfair to myself, and unprofessional as a trader, I agreed to do so, because I felt bad for him that he was not happy with the deal.
SO, I took a LOT of the stuff off that I was expecting from our agreement/deal.
Thus far I have not heard back from him. And he left the chatroom without reply.
Thoughts? Advice? Agree? Dissagree? Is a deal a deal and it should be kept? Or is bartertown not a place that we should make deals and keep them?
[EDIT] 8/2/07 - The trader has admirably agreed to complete this trasnaction that we agreed to and has sent me his end of the deal. He even went as far as to buy a BRAND NEW TAU EMPIRE codex to send me! (because the one we had traded for couldnt be found) I recieved the package today and am very pleased. I harbor no hard feelings, and knowing that this was a simple mistake (we ALL make mistakes) and not something typical of this trader, I would happily trade with him again.
Thank you all for your input, I am hoping this thread will cause us all to be more careful when making trades, and hopefully help to make bartertown a safer place to do buisness.