Okay.
I'm about to step out of "character" for myself here...
Shut the hell up.
Ek... We do and always have gotten along fine. You say you're done, and I take you at your word. You have nothing to prove to this guy, so you can stop. One note I will make, though, is that he is correct about the use of loaded words. You'd get a far better response to edit certain words and phrases out of your posts.
I hope you aren't offended. None was meant... just trying to step in & stop this.
Hwang... You made your point. You're a new kid on the playground, but you think you've been here long enough to hang around with the big kids. Fine. You can stop waving it around, now. We all see how big it is.
Personally, you're getting on my nerves, too.
Your eBay rating doesn't mean anything here, PER SITE ADMIN (and that is all that matters) because, this is NOT eBay. Don't take it personally, nobody's means JACK here.
Your notions about the propriety of certain trading ethics is understandable, due to your lack of experience around here. Don't develop your opinion based on thoughts and ideas you've developed over the span of a few months, and you'll do far better for yourself.
Now, to shut the heck up about this and TRY to get back onto the ORIGINAL poster...
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lately I have noticed alot of posts for sales and or trades where the person posting the items up for grabs have stated that they don't ship first and then giving an eBay ref.
Yes. You have. they are on the rise. As has been suggested, and as you have already stated that you do, ignore these people and move on. They aren't all scammers, but that is how the scammer works.
Personaly when I see that I more or less just ignore the post from then on.
Wise decision. Me, too.
Is this site somehow connected to eBay or something.
Only inasmuch as every site on the internet is connected by a few mouse clicks. Aside from that, bartertown has NO affiliation with eBay.
If so why even bother with having ref numbers for here,I thought the whole point was to get refs here to use here or am I just missing something.
No. regardless of what some people want to think, you are NOT missing something. You are correct.
If someone wants to be respected here, they have to earn it, not take it.
Do your trades, (preferably) take part in discussions, get your ref & post count up, and you'll be golden.
See, here's the deal...
Your references on eBay talk about how well you were there. Unfortunately, it is less of a trust based organization and, theoretically, winning an auction is a contract... blah, blah, blah... If a seller scams you, you have some (alleged) means of getting help from them. How someone behaved there is not necessarily a reflection of how they will behave here.
Ref's here are a proof of how you act in an entirely trust based situation.
Look at those with 100+ ref's. They have successfully completed 50 or more trades. That is a lot.
Add in post count, now.
Post count is a representation of how long someone spends hanging around, so to speak. A thief gets in and out. He may return to the scene of the crime, but he does NOT hang around. A lot of posts means that the person is established and, furthermore, that he cares about the site.
Generally speaking, you don't get 1000 posts in a few years by posting ads and replying to ads.
Assuming you follow the rules, you post 52 posts a year in each trade thread. Assuming you have something from EACH of the 22 trade threads to get rid of, you would have to post once in each thread EVERY WEEK for a full year, almost, to get there fast.
Take things down to more reasonable numbers, and you will see just how big of a deal 1000 posts is.
Yes, Regardless of what a minority of people want to believe, those numbers matter.
So, Gaijin18, if you are still paying any attention to this thread, I hope all the penis waggling didn't scare you off, and my post helped you.
Eric